Shifting perspective on what I view as success gave me a sense of contentment. Once I decided that success was me following a path that made me feel good about myself (vs what others thought of me) I was able to find a good deal of peace. It’s not perfect and I often still get caught in the trap of caring what others think, but most of the time it works for me.
I usually start with the definition my mentors have used… that “success is the progressive realization of a worthy ideal,” and then I’d ask myself if I’ve made any progress towards that worthy ideal!
And even if I’ve failed, there is usually a lesson to be had or something to be grateful for to be found… there’s always some reason for happiness or satisfaction.
Shifting perspective on what I view as success gave me a sense of contentment. Once I decided that success was me following a path that made me feel good about myself (vs what others thought of me) I was able to find a good deal of peace. It’s not perfect and I often still get caught in the trap of caring what others think, but most of the time it works for me.
I couldn’t agree more! This is similar to what I’ve experienced, and I also still get caught in the trap. Thanks so much for reading and responding.
I usually start with the definition my mentors have used… that “success is the progressive realization of a worthy ideal,” and then I’d ask myself if I’ve made any progress towards that worthy ideal!
And even if I’ve failed, there is usually a lesson to be had or something to be grateful for to be found… there’s always some reason for happiness or satisfaction.